REFLECTIONS

Inspired by our recent Soft Life in the Park wellness event with Black Girls Gather, this post invites readers to pause and reflect on the kind of summer they truly want to experience.

By the time May rolls around, many of us are carrying a mix of things: plans we were excited about in January, surprises we didn’t see coming, and maybe a few goals that have shifted shape along the way. That’s where the “Actually” List comes in. It’s a simple reflection exercise designed to help you pause and take an honest look at how your year has actually been going so far - not how you hoped it would look, not how you think it should look, but what has truly been taking